Families Are Forever
What is so important about having or being in a family? It gives us a sense of belonging, an assurance that we have someone to be there for us when times are rough. It allows us the ability to feel connected and to have someone to share our hopes and dreams with.
Sometimes we have great families and sometimes we have dysfunctional families. But in the end, they are our family. As we learn how to work together in our families, we will learn certain abilities that can help us in all aspects of our lives. By learning conflict resolution skills, how to share, how to keep secrets, cook, clean and serve, we will be able to utilize these skills as we work in environments that may be less than desirable.
Each family is unique in that they may be big or small and may be spread out across the lands but they are still our family and as we learn to love each member in spite of their differences, we can bond and be grateful for the support system we are blessed with. According to Daniel K. Judd from
our text, he believes that "Latter-day scripture and the words of
latter-day prophets teach us that not only are covenant marriages intended to
last beyond the grave but so can sibling and family relationships endure across
generation." We need to be cognizant of how we treat our
immediate family and extended family members at all times.
As families work together, we can be appreciative that our family can be together forever, and we can learn to love and to forgive. There are obviously going to be events in families that can drive a wedge between us if we allow it. As we humble ourselves and learn to forgive, we will find a softening of our hearts and strive to become closer as a family unit.
Judd, Daniel K. “The Eternal Family: A Plain and Precious Part of the
Plan of Salvation.” (Hawkins, A. J., Dollahite, D. C., &
Draper, T. (2012). Chapter 32 Successful marriages and families: proclamation
principles and research perspectives. Provo, UT: BYU Studies and School of
Family Life, Brigham Young University.